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by susanmcrae75

Resilience

Resilience
[rəˈzilyəns]

NOUN
resiliency (noun)
the capacity to recover quickly from difficulties; toughness.
“the often remarkable resilience of so many British institutions”
the ability of a substance or object to spring back into shape; elasticity.
“nylon is excellent in wearability and resilience”

 

I went to a seminar recently about being resilient.  I had an idea of what this meant, but admit I looked it up to make sure!

I think this is a huge word in dealing with all the pressures of today.  So many of us feel we have to be, go, do 100% all the time in every aspect of our lives.  It is not only exhausting, it is impossible.  What there has to be is balance.  Unfortunately, as person after person spoke up in this seminar, I realized not one person in the room felt they had a good balance in their lives.  Something the would love to do more of is replaced by something else that they feel they “have” to do or it is “expected” of them to do.  Have a look at this wheel by Anthony Robbins:

 

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As you can see, there is much more to the work/life balance idea.  During the seminar, we identified satisfaction (1-10 scale) in each section, and then identified the top three we feel we would most like to improve.  I realized I had very little balance-and several areas I wanted to improve…but with so many hours in the day, how do you do that?

This is where exercise comes into play.  See how many boxes can be checked?

-exercise with kids, spouse, a friend, family member (social, health, family, recreation)      -join us in a challenge group (social, health, spirituality and growth, and even work/income if you decide to become a coach!)                                                                            –join a team or league—old or new sport! (social, recreation, health)

You do not need a lot of time to improve this balance as well.  Reach out and connect to others for support.  Be PRESENT (spouse, children, friends).  Commit to 30 min of exercise a day (come on, 2 percent of your day!!).  Learn to make better food decisions based on what your body needs.  Make a lunch date with an old or new friend. Read a personal development book!

So, as continue on your journey of health, reviving your inner athlete, make sure you are trying to keep that balance and enjoying what you are doing along the way.

 

 

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by susanmcrae75

Sidelined

It sucks to be sidelined-in sports, life, whatever!  I have recently recovered from surgery that occurred just as I was getting on a real roll with progress in my beloved fitness and health program.  How humbling.  But it taught me a few things…

  1.  I am not going to heal any quicker than anyone else (ok, in general) so I better just suck it up and be good.
  2. It is easy to slip back into bad habits.  And darn it if my surgery didn’t occur right before Halloween, the little candy bars flooding my house…
  3. I must keep my eye on the bigger picture, the future goals…but the short term goals must change.  But they are just that-short term goals.  I tell my patients this all the time…this is just a short period of your life when you are recovering or trying to get out of pain or whatever the problem may be.  Your short term goal right “now” is to get back to that path, so let yourself heal!
  4. It is easy to be jealous of or even angry at those who are not injured, who are going about their activity with ease.  I was also angry at my own body, for not acting like it should and needing surgery.  Now what good does that do?  Absolutely nothing but make me eat little candy bars in self pity.

Another big hit that I wasn’t prepared for was the feeling of not being a part of the “team” anymore.  The team that was practicing, working out, encouraging each other.  Yeah, my friends encouraged me to “hang in there,” but I wasn’t doing what they were doing anymore.  I was an outsider.  Enter in feelings of the past…more little candy bars…

When I was in middle school, I had to have major surgery on my shoulder.  Looking back on my surgical report as a now physical therapist, I do not know how that thing was still attached (and I have a huge, huge amount of love for my surgeon who fixed it!).  There was absolutely no choice-major surgery.  So out of the pool I went.  I did my therapy and was good.  Return to swimming was slow, there was little support from my coach (I don’t think he even believed I had HAD surgery, despite the scars), and often resentment from those who were having to train more than I could.  That surgery enabled me to swim in high school and college, but I always knew even through those years many did not understand why there were some things I couldn’t do.  That is an awful feeling.  A feeling of being not good enough, and not healthy enough to ever be.  A little later add in a knee overuse injury and my entire path I had set since I was young changed.

At this point in my life I have to say WHAT THE HELL?!  What I wouldn’t give to be doing what everyone else was doing!  Why did they care so much about what I was or was not doing, when it was their own goals they should be focused on?  And recently, what I would have given to be attacking my workouts and having fun doing it….

So the commercial with the line “stay in your lane, bro” comes to mind.  Do not worry about everyone else’s journey.  That is theirs to worry about.  Do not let their thoughts, words, etc about your journey cause you to drift from your own path.  Easy?  Not at all.

Surround yourself with those who truly cheer you during both the ups and downs.  I learned a lot about who was this type of supporter during these past 2 months, and who reminded me more of past teammates (and coaches) who made me feel like crap.  Do not be one of those people to others…you don’t know what they’ve got going on and how much they would give to be “able”

And finally, revel in what your body can do.  It is an immaculate machine.   Be present in your workouts and be amazed at what your body can do.  You never know when that can change.

(And I need to throw the rest of these mini candy bars out!  Maybe just keep a few….)

 

by susanmcrae75

The Love (Hate) of Water

Ah, the benefits of water.  We all know we are mostly made up of water…make that about 60%.  As a former swimmer, I should love it, but it has always been a love hate relationship with me for sure.

Love:  got me into college with a scholarship, I loved racing and playing in it, love floating around relaxing in a pool or lake, love catching fish from it, and will probably retire somewhere where I can see it daily.

The hate runs a little deeper.  When I was very young, I would watch my older sisters dive into our pool.  So of course as soon as I could toddle around?  Yep, right into the pool-the deep end specifically, and my father had to perform rescue breathing on his one year old.  So not sure if it is due to this subconscious memory or not, but my whole life, I’ve been afraid of water and drowning (vehicle, ocean, lake, pool, whatever!).  Several teenage boys likely have permanent scars from my fingernails and knees when they thought it would be fun to hold teenage girls like me underwater-yep, they learned.  And, to this day, I really do not enjoy getting wet-pool or water gun-doesn’t matter!  Crazy for a swimmer I know.  I also never quite understood the importance of it with exercising and my sport.  Knew I needed it, knew I was thirsty, knew it possibly provided a nice 4 lap break during a workout, but no one really ever explained it.

So, fortunately now that I have learned a lot more about health and nutrition through my current fitness/health program, I have another mark on the love side.  I admit sometimes it is much easier with a little natural flavoring from fruit, etc.  However, I have been told once you get accustomed to drinking water, you crave it, and now I’m a believer.

Why drink it?  And why have the goal of half your body weight in ounces per day?

Reduces fatigue, decreases some headaches (one of my migraine triggers is dehydration…of course), aids in digestion/regularity, curbs appetite/assists with weight loss, decreases frequency of muscle cramps, improves hydration/appearance of skin, and more!!  Who out there could not benefit from improving one, more or all of these areas, simply by drinking more water?  It has definitely helped me lose 23 pounds recently, and helped me recover from the workouts I am doing!

I challenge you to start by adding one more 16 ounce serving to your day.  Gradually increase towards your goal of half your body weight and see how you feel.  Set goals and keep track.  It will help you on your fitness journey, doesn’t cost a thing (unless bottled of course!!) and improve your overall health in the process.

And as usual, if you are searching for an awesome program with and awesome group with awesome results, let me know!  There is always room for more people trying to get back out there, reach fitness goals, cross train to prevent injury, whatever!

Now go fill up!

-S

 

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by susanmcrae75

26.2

I have always wanted that sticker.  26.2.  Actually, I was shooting for the 13.6, and had it all planned out.  Going to do the Disney Half, all smiling, waving to characters……Problem is, I am not a runner.  My husband, when I asked him to watch me run to figure out why my right knee and hip were hurting told me “you’re just not a land animal babe!”  This did not help, and made me want to run more just to prove him wrong!

Problem is/was, I don’t enjoy running.  I envy those gazelle like people who can run, and I wanted to be like them!  I heard of the runner’s high-I am not sure what that would feel like but I am sure my hands on knees feeling of nausea was not it.  I have tried to return to running over the years, and finally my hamstring said “nope!”  And there you have it.

The same occurred with yoga.  Again, I envy these people and friends who look so peaceful, so flexible,so toned!  Problem is, I am a mover.  When people ask me what I think about yoga, (and I get this at least several times a week from my patients),  I say “what do YOU think about yoga?”  They look at me confused and I clarify-you have to enjoy what you are doing or you 1) are not going to stick with it 2) resent the time you are spending doing it 3) not see results because of 1&2.  So I say-“try it and see!”

Wait, is exercise supposed to be enjoyable?!  YES!  I really look forward to getting up in the mornings (gasp) because the program I am doing makes me feel good, proud and sets up my day in a positive way.  This exercise, and the feeling I get from it, overflows into everything else I do that day.  When you find something that brings you that feeling, then you’ll stick with it and reach those goals!

You are always welcome to join me (I admit not EVERYONE does the program in the mornings 😉  if you are struggling with what you are doing now (or NOT doing!)  Have fun!

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by susanmcrae75

Sabotage

I used to make my bed everyday.  It was ingrained in me by my mom, and I was trying to get around my kids saying “well YOU don’t make YOURS!”  The problem is, I have two dogs that when I am gone (picture “Secret Life of Pets” scene) pull/dig the comforter up to reveal the coolness of the sheets and….nap time!  Pillows on floor, sheets and comforter are mess when I get home.  So, why even bother?  If you have someone sabotaging your work, then it can get quite frustrating!

I’m not changing these dogs.  So you have to look at if this sabotage is really going to interfere with your goals.  My bed making goal?  Not that important, so I let it go and marvel at their efforts each day.  But your health and fitness goals?  Those are different, and we’ve all been there!  It is very hard eating carrots over my beloved fresh out of the oven chocolate chip cookies, slightly underbaked (sigh…..).  So 1) I can NOT have cookie dough in the house 2) everyone in this house has to support me on this.  For my husband, it is sugary cereal-he could, and would, eat a whole box of Fruity Pebbles at one sitting.  So sorry kids, can’t do that to him.

What if you do not have this support?  Then you have to find it.  You have to have people/a person to lean on when those temptations are high!  Find your tribe and lean in-but also give support back as well.  You also have to weigh the pros and cons.  Is this moment of weakness worth all your hard work for the day?  Will it cause a setback?  Lead to other bad decisions?  Suddenly those cookies don’t look worth an additional run or workout!  If you can just have one, and that is worth it so be it, but you are WAY stronger than I am apparently!

Make sure your “why” is also specific and strong enough to resist those temptations to falter on your path of health, fitness, whatever the goal may be.  Resist those people and things that may sabotage your goals!

by susanmcrae75

Roots

We took a recent trip to California and into Sequoia National Forest-an amazing place!  I don’t think anyone is not in awe looking up at these massive trees.  We learned from the guides that redwood roots can extend 100 feet outward, forming a network of underground roots with other trees.  They can also sprout new trees from their roots!

Isn’t that what a team is?  I have tried exercising by myself over the years after graduating-many different programs and activities-and always got bored.  It is so easy to just stop for one reason or another.  But if someone is there to cheer for you, hold you accountable, expect you to do your part, it just helps to keep you going!  If each day there is something new and already scheduled for you-all you have to do is sign on, what a simple fix to that!

This is one reason I am excited about being a health and wellness coach with such a great, inspiring team.  I am so excited to be a part of a fantastic, strong team that welcomes newcomers of all types with open arms!  You have a chance to help yourself achieve your goals, feel better, and improve your life and even the lives of others by also being a coach!

You can look at the redwood (ie your body, health, exercising, etc) and think, there is no way I can do that.  But you can!  Each of those awesome trees started small.  Each of those trees are intertwined.  Want to be part of our challenge group?  Let me know!  ssmcrae75@gmail.com

 

by susanmcrae75

Welcome! Who I am….

I created this blog to help those like myself who are trying to find that inner fire to create their best selves.  It is in all of us, but sometimes it falls by the wayside.  Injuries, kids, job, schedules, you name it….we put ourselves at the bottom of the list.  I was a former college swimmer, who for 16 years did not have to worry about my health, what I was eating, setting goals….then I graduated.  After that, I was a bit lost.  I tried so many different exercises, diets, logs, you name it.  There was always something missing and my results never stuck with me.  I had some injuries, emotional struggles, a busy schedule and family.  I recently had some revelations:

First, I liked to be coached and have a team with a common goal.  Someone was there to keep me on track and encourage me, and my teammates expected me to show up and encourage them as well.  I struggled with keeping myself motivated.  I didn’t necessarily want to take back up an official sport, but I missed those aspects of it.

Second, I got bored.  The same thing over and over was fine for about 2 weeks.  Then I would miss a day, then another…

Third, I didn’t know how to eat!  I tried keeping track of food in a log, determining points, had no idea of portions, and just did not have the energy or time to keep up with it for the long run.

And lastly, the time aspect.  I work full time in healthcare (coaching and encouraging all day!) and then come home to job #2:  mom.  I needed something to fit into my busy lifestyle, that I didn’t have to totally work my day around.  Nutrition needed to be something I could easily keep up with-I would forget or not want to do it by the time I got home, or I was guessing….  

Then, I found a program that combines nutrition, fitness (30 minute workouts), and a supportive group/community that supports me.  I in turn also support my team!  Yes!  So I decided to become a coach of this program to help myself, help others and enable them to help others as well all improve the life we are living.  This includes mind and body!  

We are all real people, looking for something that works, and continues to work!  Let’s do this!

Susan McRae